Sometimes couples experience marriage problems that could be solved if the two could notice their habits and change them...
People don't always make a conscious decision to argue over petty things, nag and be critical, or leave messes for the other to clean, for example. People just get into negative patterns of relating, fall into lazy personal habits, or get into a rut that they perpetuate out of habit. - See more at: http://amazingpandph.blogspot.com/2014/01/to-tell-her-or-not-to-tell-her-that-is.html#sthash.DGszw3tj.dpuf